Matilda, I'm glad I gave you some "food for thought" regarding identifying feelings that are nagging you. Let us know what you come-up with.
I'm also glad to hear you're contemplating adding more pleasant/meaningful activities to your life. I think this is so critical for the LBS, and for promoting/maintaining healthy boundaries.
The addition of my writing group has made it easier to detach and practice more appropriate boundaries. It is so nice to have an activity that doesn't involve her. It's also nice to pursue something based on my interests, rather than to improve a R (also important). I hope to cultivate my own set of friends/acquaintances over the next year.
Keep us posted as to your ideas, pursuits, and insights.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
