Listen, my W is not "seeing" OM either, and I believe her, but I also believe, and know for a fact, that she still has feelings for OM. OK, NOTHING we can do to change that. She will need to process those feelings out, so yes, GAL will make you a little more attractive to her, especially if you are upbeat about everything and not so worrisome. I fell into that trap myself, and it got me back to square one.
I wish I would have followed all the advice given to me to a T instead of learning the HARD WAY!
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
