As far as I know from what she's told me, and I HAVE to believe her, there is no more A. I just don't want to give her the opportunity to contact OM in a moment of weakness. I know, I can't control what she does, and if she wants to contact him, she'll find a way. I've been on really good behavior as of late. I haven't asked her anything about him in a couple weeks. We haven't really talked about the relationship lately either. GAL will make me more attractive to her? She literally has NO friends that she hangs out with. I'm serious. The only person she spends time out with besides me is her mom. She says she misses talking with OM when it comes up.