In my experience even a gentle nudge of the hand can be perceived by a man who is feeling vulnerable as a criticism. It's pretty aggravating for a woman, especially if you're really "getting into it" to make a suggestion either with a word or two or with a physical shift and have him react with huffing and pouting.
Ugh Lil. I agree. My H has never taken offense to my suggestions but I have been with others who think they know it all, or worse have you on a time frame. One guy was performing oral on me, no more than 5 minutes tops, and just I was really starting to get into it, he lifts his head up and half laughing/half annoyed, says something like "You are going to give me a complex if you don't cum soon." Being the HD woman I can be, I basically just told him to shut up and finish the job which he did, but I was annoyed afterwards. I knew that guy was going to be a taker, not a giver, and clearly thought he was too cool for school to get away with that BS. Dropped him soon after, not just for that but bigger issues like being a compulsive liar. See all the fun stuff you have to look forward to Mojo!
