I'm feeling pretty avoidant myself NJ. I don't like that either. I was getting quite concerned that H was avoiding too but this morning he made a comment that he had a sex dream about us and he wants to make it come true this weekend. So yeah for me. Maybe I'll get some good lovin. It's been about a month. ugh.
No advice for ya just letting you know I can certainly relate. It's hard to get yourself out of that mindset. Hope your H comes through for you.