Hi Heather Well, my first instinct after reading that last post is that your timing is really sucky. Why on earth would you bring up such a "hot topic" like starting at a new church when you know darn well your H views on religion. Don't you have enough on your plate? That just doesn't make sense to me. The two of you are still trying to work out this new relationship and you seem to be testing him quite a bit in ways that I think are just too much right now. Stick with the issues at hand and make your life a little less stressful. If you really want to go to that church then go, but I agree with your H, I don't think you should bring the children unless you both decide it would be in their best interest. LFL