Life of Job

[jamespb75]

I am reading the book change your life and everyone else in it. It tells about the butterfly affect and how it creates a wave of change. And yes what about our spouses? They need to change for it to work, but It will take us changing first to make changes in them. the feel no need to change because they want out. Why should they, D is around the corner, They don't see a reason. We see the reason, and We are the reason. Once they feel it is necessary to reconcile, the change will be automatic. Our changes will spark them to change.

for those who want to go back to the failed relationship have not truely understood what this is about. They feel everything was fine and they just want that back. It is called the comfort zone. The zone where people just want things the same and don't have any motivation to change. Well, the laywer is sending them post cards, because thats where they will be.

GOD has seen our lives, and took into account why we are all here. He has paved the path on how to get there. Some of us choose to travel at night, and get lost. Some wake in the morning, and find thier way back. Some just wander off and get lost. He has a plan. To make us bettre, stronger, more loving. He didn't make his Son fast for forty days, just to see him starve. Did he? No with every decision there is a motive. What do you want, and how are you going to get there. I learned in church that you shouldn't use what you have to get what you want. Jesus didn't use his power for food, fame and power. He found other ways to get what he wanted, and didn't use the power God had gave him. In other words, I feel this says there is no quick fix, we all need to set a goal, and work very hard to achieve it. Don't take the shortcut.