Ok, I'm going to follow your advice, guys. We live in southern Maine and I'm restoring a car that's in Massachusetts, about a 2 hour drive from us. I'm going there on saturday to work on my car for the first time since this happened. I haven't wanted to go for fear that she would see OM knowing I'm so far away. I have to believe that she has nothing to do with him anymore, she swears to me she doesn't. I asked her very innocently what her plans are for saturday, she said she didn't know. I'm VERY nervous about being so far away.
