Why did it make you depressed when I said I was happy for your H?
Because it seemed to me that you were implying that there was something else or more that I could have done.
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I hope you take some more time to take care of your bunny before your monkey swings her out to be buffeted about.
Oh, don't worry about me in that regard. Actually, I usually have the opposite problem. I've never bounced right from one man to another. I'm just trying to buck myself up or else I could easily go into hermit mode.
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You cannot know anyone, without hearing their voice, and how they speak, seeing them move and feeling their presence. Literary infatuation can blind you to all of that. Id rather see you go to the biker bar eyes wide open, but thats not what you really want.
I know that this is true. My sister has done quite a bit of internet dating. She once went out with a guy simply because he spoke directly to her monkey fantasy. When they went back to his apartment he put a Yonni album on and she had to make a rude and hasty exit. Interestingly, I am located close and pretty much equidistant between two biker bars. One is a "real" biker bar and the other is the sort of biker bar that caters to dentists who are bikers on the weekend. I would only visit either of these in pathetic pursuit of validation but not in search of anything for real.
It's also true what you said about hearing someone's voice. As you may have guessed I have a rather low voice for a woman and I talk very fast.
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Your a cool girl Mojo. Give yourself a chance to believe it. Make a plan. stick with the plan.
Thanks. However, I have no clue how to make such a plan.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
