Sol;
No doubt about it, the winds of change are blowing, more like gail force wind. I think the pain of the change is in seeing how our shortcomings have contributed to the problem, not simply because we are becoming someone different.

Change is what has to happen, I have not met too many people here who want to go back to their old failed relationships. Change in us, change in our S, and change in our marriage.

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Me 43, waw 44, 3 kids(D15,D12,S6)Married 19yr, together 27yr. Bomb 11/27/06, Separated 3/1/07 Divorce filed 4/18/07,

"Because it is in giving that we receive; In forgiving that we obtain forgiveness; In dying that we rise to eternal life" St. Francis