Why did it make you depressed when I said I was happy for your H?
Something has finally lit a fire under his ass. You have finally relieved yourself of the burden of feeling like you are/have to carry him, and trying to fix him. Its unfortunate for both of you, but 19 years is a lot of fusion.
I am happy for you too, for that reason too, but I dont want to see you in the cottage. I hope you take some more time to take care of your bunny before your monkey swings her out to be buffeted about. Internet dating is a two edged sword. I tried it out and women thought they knew me so well, without knowing anything about me, they were willing to skip right to LTR on the first meeting.
You cannot know anyone, without hearing their voice, and how they speak, seeing them move and feeling their presence. Literary infatuation can blind you to all of that. Id rather see you go to the biker bar eyes wide open, but thats not what you really want.
Your a cool girl Mojo. Give yourself a chance to believe it. Make a plan. stick with the plan.
