No, this is not the right guy for you. Unless you re-typed his entry while drunk (which I don't think you did), this guy probably made up most of his entry. Multiple (I counted 10 while just skimming it) misspellings and grammar and usage errors, combined with the trying-too-hard-to-sound-urbane voice, tell me that he's a cretin with genital herpes, he drives an uninsured Datsun (yes, you heard me right) pickup truck with over 200,000 miles on it, and his mother smells of elderberry. Oh, and he has scrawny arms.
Geeze, I can already see that you are not competent to pick your own dates.
Geeze, I can already see that you are not competent to pick your own dates.
LMAO- Pray tell why I care what his mother smells like?
Of course, I liked the fact that he was REreading Paglia. Also, it would be a bit of the pot calling the kettle black for me to dis anyone for grammar abuse. I can see that you guys are going to be picky. I'm sure Lou will come up with some objections also.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
I don't like him either. I think it's the typos...and why does he say women when he means woman? Is that a Freudian slip? I want someone monogamous for you.
Why did it make you depressed when I said I was happy for your H?
Something has finally lit a fire under his ass. You have finally relieved yourself of the burden of feeling like you are/have to carry him, and trying to fix him. Its unfortunate for both of you, but 19 years is a lot of fusion.
I am happy for you too, for that reason too, but I dont want to see you in the cottage. I hope you take some more time to take care of your bunny before your monkey swings her out to be buffeted about. Internet dating is a two edged sword. I tried it out and women thought they knew me so well, without knowing anything about me, they were willing to skip right to LTR on the first meeting.
You cannot know anyone, without hearing their voice, and how they speak, seeing them move and feeling their presence. Literary infatuation can blind you to all of that. Id rather see you go to the biker bar eyes wide open, but thats not what you really want.
Your a cool girl Mojo. Give yourself a chance to believe it. Make a plan. stick with the plan.
One of the many lessons of every mythological story is deposing the father. (with the exception of judeo/christianity) The law of the jungle, and the history of mankind is the same.
I deposed my father a looong time ago. probably at 5 without consciousness, manifested with actions at 10 and mentally with consciousness and intentionality at 14. Its hard to remember if I read more freud or more asimov when I was 14. not really-- asimov was more prolific
I know I have no father. There is no doubt. I was lucky/unlucky when I started college, to be enough of a threat to the wolves that they wanted me in the pack rather then outside. I was lucky when I went to AK to meet a man who was well fathered and matured and ethical in dealing with women. Unfortunately neither he nor his brother rubbed off on his nephew.
I dont think you would be interested in my father. He cheated on my mother, kicked her out of a moving car, and abandoned her when she was pregnant. He wanted to move to canada to avoid the draft, but joined the 101st when he was 32. Then he spent several years in prison for statuatory rape, when he pissed off his GF, by sleeping with her underage daughter. Since then I have never slept with a woman I havent carded one way or another. Nowadays it doesnt really matter, cause I cant deal with them under ~24. I just cant handle the blankness. Im not that HD.
If I won the lottery, I would break the 18 years of non communication with my step dad, since he insulted me,(with the exception of his D, when I hugged him while he cried like a baby when my mom left him) to give him $80 G's and say 'thanks for the food and clothes. we're even now.' I cant abide being indebted.
My mother used to put me in check when I was young, by saying 'you remind me of your father when you do x,y, z'. She knew I would instantly stop. Nowadays, she says it alot more often, when Im being a cocky smartazz, but its done with fondness and reminiscing. It doesnt bother me either, I have my rules in place. This apple doesnt worry about becoming that tree anymore. I am my own father. When I need a mother, I call her and have her make me lasagna, or corned beef and cabbage.
And now, since I know that whatever I focus on is what my reality becomes, Im going to forget all about that in the Past FOO foo solutionless excrement, and return my focus to my purpose.
I don't like him either. I think it's the typos...and why does he say women when he means woman? Is that a Freudian slip? I want someone monogamous for you.
Hmmm...good point. Also, I was thinking that HD was right about the typos etc. When I worked HR I wouldn't hire anyone who couldn't bother to fix them on a resume/application. Failure to show due diligence.-LOL
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
