James;
Thanks, I am glad we are all getting to a place where we can stop walking as though the ice is about to break underneath us.

I don't know if we let our vows to each other fall to the bottom of the priorities, but they certainly were not at the top, and near the top is where they deserve to be.

I know I have relied for a long time on momentum to keep my marriage moving. "because it has been, it will be". For that I am deeply ashamed and sorry. Even though it was for all the right reasons, the result is what we face today.

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Me 43, waw 44, 3 kids(D15,D12,S6)Married 19yr, together 27yr. Bomb 11/27/06, Separated 3/1/07 Divorce filed 4/18/07,

"Because it is in giving that we receive; In forgiving that we obtain forgiveness; In dying that we rise to eternal life" St. Francis