He cannot get over the OW help us...

[Heartbroken]

Well dinner went good though the power went off/on during the day and the bread maker never came back on!!! H LOVES fresh bread (darn)!!!!

So I got home early H was doing the credit card bill and kids doing homework - who would know the underlying dysfunction!!

H eat three helpings amd killed off the remaining broccoli and had some oreos with the kids. I teased him about trying to eat all MY food! HA!

H & I talked about Mrs. S and I asked why he was being so rude to her when all along he was the nicest one to her (more so than even me). I just said her and Ow had a falling out and that I am sure a lot of 'truths' could be found with her...Left it as that...

H mentioned that one of our close friends who just found out about all this drama (from Ow Ex last Fri at Pub) pulled up along side him in our school parking lot. She told him he can't keep avoiding her. She really let him have it (she WAS friends with the Ow but better friends with H and I) and told him only HE can fix this. She did all of this w/o any prompting from me (I SWEAR). I think they talked 15 mins and H said he just did not want to hurt either of us (Me or Ow). H told our friend that the Ow did not even try and just up and file for D and that he did not mean for it to get this out of control. She said a lot to him and I hope he maybe can really listen to her and not get the blinders on. He did tell me that they talked but did not mention any of this heart to heart stuff.

H is getting a cold so I got him some meds out of our bathroom he took some extra items from home and I was the loving wife helping him out. I did tell him I have stopped with the extreme sadness and than I am doing much better. He said that make him feel good - relieve some stress on him. I said I am out of the vortex and it helps to be away from the drama....

Well when the bread was finished I buttered up three pieces and put them in my hot food carrier, called him to make sure he was up and took him the bread (in an ice storm nonetheless) - he seemed very happy. I called myself the desparate housewife but told him I know how much he likes warm bread. Hugged and said goodnight. All in All a VERY positive night!