Yo LL! Just got updated on your sitch. Wow, lot's of stuff.

Hmmm...you know, if I didn't know it any better, I'd think your H is related to RJJ's H. I jest...

In any case, I can only imagine your frustration. He seems so...what's the word I'm looking for...sedate? I'm new at this W kind of giving back to the M thing, but I don't feel like I'd hesitate to ask for what I need. As far as I'm concerned, I deserve a little a$$ kissing, and I'm sure you feel the same way.

Have you ever asked that he read anything to understand how you feel about his EA? It seems he needs to get a little perspective on how you are feeling... Did you ever just tell him that because of his EA it makes you uncomfortable that he go to the football game with this woman? You're blunt on the board, but do you walk on eggshells a lot at home, and don't communicate to him what you really want or expect...especially after some of the damage done?

I have to agree with Laney about asking to trade off every other Saturday or something. I know his job is demanding, so it might be difficult (I used to live in AK and know how the plowing things goes). But, then again, maybe make him promise to give you one day every two weeks or something.

Just some random thoughts I wanted to throw out there. BTW, great on remembering the movie date and mentioning a ski trip. Does he get a little love bank credit?

Thanks very much for coming by my thread. I really very much appreciate it, LL.

bellis