Hey, the lets see what happens is better then, I want a D, and I don't love you, and all the negative things in the world. So just buckle up buddy, your in it for the long haul.
On a brighter note the future statment is a positive.
You not bringing up OM, is also a big positive.
Give her room to breathe.
M-31 W-25 S-1 1/2 bomb dropped 9-01-06,and repeating over and over "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be." Groucho Marx.