But I also had this feeling like he just wanted it too much and that he was some sort of sex crazed lunatic. It is helpful for me to understand that this is just a typical man, not a sex crazed lunatic.
This is extremely demeaning, and yes, I hear this type of crap language from my wife occasionally. Essentially, you are saying, "before I talked to you people, I saw my husband's behavior as that of a sex crazed lunatic. Now, I understand that my husband's behavior is that of a typical man." The behavior is the same as it was before you asked us, although now you know that it is behavior shared by a majority of men, not just behavior manifested by a sex crazed lunatic.
Well thanks, peaceful. It's good to know that you now see this behavior that, before, you attributed only to sex crazed lunatics, is shared by all "typical" men.
This kind of language evidences an attitude about sex that is likely as aberrant as you thought your H's behavior was.
