thanks for stopping by milena,
I think I will take h's remembering the movie and reminding me as an attempted appology or ice breaker or ya get the point.

so today h is good h. sometimes I am reluctant to tell h how I am feeling...it is winter and I am slightly depressed as a result. because of all this mess that has happend I don't often tell him becuase I don't want to put pressure on him..but I should be able to let h know how I am feeling, also it may help him to know that my sometimes bummy moods are not all about him. so today when h called I did let him know i was a bit down..that I just don't like winter..h agreed that it effects a lot of people. I expressed that it is not as bad if I get out and go skiing or something.

here's the good h part.
said maybe next week if we can get someone to watch the kids we'll get away for a couple days and go skiing.

I really need a get away, was thinking of just going alone, but to go with h would be even better!!!

LL