Wow, does this all ever sound familiar! My H puts everybody before me as well, lies to me about stupid things so that he doesn't have to hear it from me and makes everything seem as if it's my fault. If it's any consolation, I used to react the same way. I say used to b/c H has been gone 7.5 months. I don't really have any advice since I have never been able to figure out a solution to it myself. I tried everything from yelling to speaking to him calmly. Definitely communication problems though, do you guys go to a C and if not, would he ever consider going?? Actually, one thing that helped a bit was to not offer an opinion when my H said something b/c I think he saw that as my being critical and since he was afraid of my criticism, he wouldn't tell me certain things.
Quote: so h reminded me that we are supposed to go to the movies tonight....wow...I forgot..he remembered...think that's his little way of making up for things???
I think so and it's so small that it's easy to overlook.
