so h finally called at 6:40 I conveiniently in the playroom choosing to not answer the phone...know it's him anyway (who calls me?) so he left a message I could barely make out sounds like "hey you, it's me" this is his cute talk. then calls again cause apparently the connection was bad...left another message still not clear ..but more bla bla bla I'll try you again later...h baffles me...is rude to me...cold to me...doesn't talk about the argument and find a resolution making us both feel better...simply goes to sleep wakes up in the am hops in the shower and takes off to the game...then after his time sneaks in a win at the last min hours after actaully h calls cutsie????? gee maybe bil put a call into sil and h just followed suit and called me..do I care...at this point no...from now on I expect nothing from h...that way then if I get anything from him...I can be happy about it.
think I'll put the kids to bed and get to bed myself...no point waiting up for h to come home if he is in fact comming home as he still does have the option to stay at his appartment....must be nice huh?