Mojo, I think of you as a cyberfriend too, but your H's behavior makes sense to me. Im happy for him, but it seems like a waste and unfortunate for both of you.
I understand why you would be happy for my H. I am happy for him too. The thing I don't think you do understand is that you really should be happy for me too even if I end up alone in the cottage with the orchard.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
