I'm on the boards late at night tonight. Can't sleep. Haven't been around at all lately. R with my little WAS is going great right now. My current job has taken a dive. I would like all arrows to point up for once, you know.
Alaska, Alaska, Alaska...
Have you ever actually asked him if he has considered coming back to LA so you could be together? Are you THAT sure you know what his reaction would be? Even if you are, what could the harm be in bringing it up?
If you're looking for answers, I have one...don't go. At least not permanenetly. Don't assume your M is immediately over either, though. The last poster was on to something...are you so sure there aren't more suprises out there? More options that haven't even come to light yet?
I'm too tired to come up with anything sane right now. But it seems to me that since you will be unhappy if you go, and he will be unhappy if he comes back, that the one thing to do is to wait for suprises right where you are.
