That sucks. Your H sounds a bit like my H. It really seems like he just doesn't get it. But I wonder with mine if it's a control thing - info is power, and he holds onto it tight. Then when I get upset about him not telling me something, he turns the blame straight back on me by accusing me of being hysterical! I don't even have to raise my voice and he says I'm freaking out.
As ticked off as I would be in your shoes, would it be possible to do a 180 if something like this happens again? Not sure what that would look like, maybe say nothing at the time, somehow paint on a smile, then later, calmly and sweetly say "If you are ever looking for someone to go with you to the game, I would love to go".
I know you are a passionate woman, and have had to bite your tongue so many times it hurts, but he said he didn't tell you because he feared your reaction. Now, because he got the reaction he expected, he thinks he was right ( )
Just a thought. Please don't think all is lost - you have come so, so far!
But I wonder with mine if it's a control thing - info is power, and he holds onto it tight. Then when I get upset about him not telling me something, he turns the blame straight back on me by accusing me of being hysterical! 
I don't even have to raise my voice and he says I'm freaking out. 
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