Quote: I think you might understand how your H would misinterprete your intention that you would like to go to the game. Was it really expressed in a way so he can understand that your upset was not because of jealousy of another woman, but because of your insecurity and your interest to spend time together with him in a game you would be equally interesting to you? I am not sure if that message got across.
thanks chuck....
h knows full well that I want to go to the games...not just to spend the time with him but because I enjoy going to the games...it is not so much that he was with sil (well yes that does bother me cause I don't care for her and why should she get to go??? h could easily tell bil when he isn't going that he'll buy that seat for me but no h just goes with sil instead whatever)
you are right chuck...this r has HUGE communication problems always has...always will....h is not a communicator....so the only way to go about things is to just keep my feelings to myself and expect little if anything from h as far as communication.
whatever at this point.
matters not that the pats lost...if anything that will make h stay down at his appartment tonight as we still have not made peace over last nights arguing...h's way to just go to sleep or leave..ya that works doesn't it?? so then I will be mad at that too... and just because the pats are done doesn't mean football is done...h will now go down to buddies (as he has been already on sun's) to watch the other teams...and gee maybe if they like the teams that get in the superbowl enough looser buddie will drag h off to new orleans again.
I need to get away for a few days...h already let me know I could (gee thanks for the permission) when he had told me of his going to miami to see the pats...so I am looking to find a nice little hotel or something not to far away to go and spend a few days alone....see if I can find a place that has a spa...get a massage...sleep all day...and do whatever I want and not be bothered by all this bs..let h once again be reminded that he too is a parent and what it is like to not be able to just do what you want when you want.
