Honestly, the real reason I'm honest about this is to let others know that I've been there, I *get it*, and I made it through. Not proud, not embarrassed, it just is what it is.
I can pretty much guarantee I'll never be back in that place, and that's thanks to this process. DBing saved me as much as Lex and IC!
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!