Running, I admire your ability to let go. I have just recently come to the conclusion that I needed to back off and that the more I tell him what he needs the more he will do to prove me wrong. My H moved in with OW first of Jan then moved back home for 4 or 5 days. He left yet again Feb 5th. His OW had a hysterectomy this week. She has played this to the hilt. He even took two days off from work to help care for her. I could really use some extra advice if you want my email is slmom9598@yahoo.com I keep thinking that he is going to realize this on his own. He will wake from this fog. I am holding onto God and patience. He says he loves me. I know he does. He thinks he is "inlove' with the OW though and I come to the conclusion that it is him that has to realize it is not love but infactuation. Our home is 30 miles from the apt. he is living in with her. So, every time he sees the kids or helps with them he is having to drive 30 mins. I am getting DR this weekend. I did print out the first chapter from online. Would anyone show that to their wayward spouse or should I just read the book and leave him alone?
