Stubborn, I had no idea whether you were ready to walk or not, the rollercoaster has its dips. I do believe that leaving should not be done as a tactic though. When we leave it should be because that is what we have to do for us, end of story! You mentioned your Db coach telling you to crank her engine a bit re leaving etc. You are the second person who has reported the DB coach said such things. I'm kind of confused here, aren't we supposed to sit at home acting "as if", trying new ways to connect and make ourselves better through GAL? Just waiting for the A to run its course. What's with all this Jihad talk towards the wayward S now from DB coaches? I'm now wondering, am I being a weinie by not speaking up when she leaves to see OW? She knows I disapprove but how the heck would giving her a hard time make that situation any different? I'm missing something.
