Sounds like maybe the answer could have been, "not yet, maybe not ever".
Could be. Not nearly enough info. to make that kind of call right now. But it's fair to say that if you fell in love with and married person A, and it turns out they are really person B, you probably have no better than even odds that had they been person B at the start, you might never have found them desirable (and I mean in more than just a physical sense) in the first place. That's where I'm at right now...basically starting over, trying to find out who my WAW really is, and then deciding if that's the kind of person I want to spend the rest of my life with. A very strange place to be, indeed.
Originally Posted By: Just_Me
I hope by holding pattern that still means you are enjoying your own life.
Absolutely. I've got friends coming over for dinner this weekend, some stuff going on next week, and lots of projects to work on. I'm in a good place.
Originally Posted By: stilldazed
I guess I'm curious to know whether or not it is the C or WAW that wants the 3-4 counceling sessions. You "suppose" its WAW, but what makes you think this?
I "suppose" this for two reasons. First, because I asked the C this question and she fudged the answer. I don't think she would have done this if it were her idea and I think she would have endorsed the idea as well. Second, my WAW said several weeks ago there was something she wanted to talk to me about, but avoided it when I asked and then never said anything. I think this idea might have been the topic and she ultimately couldn't bring herself to say it. But it's all speculation on my part.
