LL - doing a quick drive by and see that you're a bit down at the moment. You mentioned about the need to get back to a life of your own - I agree wholeheartedly. It's interesting that in the process of getting that life of my own, W thinks that I'm not working on the marriage and whatever changes I have made are transparent to her. I think that it bothers her that she is trying to deal with me according to her rules and I have changed the dymanic by following a different set of rules.
They say that if you change, the relationship changes as a result. I think that we all need to make some New Year's resolutions towards getting that "life of our own." Just have to find the time to do some thinking...
