Quoting lostlove:
see instead of being accusitory (well I was right after all wasn't i, he did have ow) and saying what are you doing all day...bla bla bla....I simply say..what've you been up to....and he rambles..happily..


brilliant in its simplicity...and it works, too!

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so things are going well if I just keep calm and stop letting my head wander to what h is doing


ever the DBer's dilemma.

SI