so here's some more of h doing right...well after a bit of a screw up...last night buddie was here before h got home..and fil was here to watch kids..I did not put son to bed as he was finishing a video and I thought h might like to see him for a min as he had expressed dissapointment with not seeing him in the am.. so h called buddie and heard son in background...not thrilled about s being up still h calls my cell and with attitude " just wondering why s is still awake...do i need to give him a bath or something" way to go asswipe you lost points for that one... so I called h back and discussed it he was still pissy..was tired and dirty and had hoped son would have been taken care of already...I was really pissed but instead of yelling just told him I was pissed at his taking it out on me. and got off the phone (i was on my cell on the way to the movies at this point)
after yelling out loud to myself what a jerk off...sorry I thought you'd like to see son for a min...and why are you getting mad at me...you didn't even know I was there...so actually it's your dad's fault he's awake still as far as you know...I am sooooo pissed...you did nice by getting fil to come so I could get out without being late for show...but you took it away with this stinkin seemingly selfish message....ahhhhh!!! then I was reachin for the phone to call him and let him know how pissed i was when the phone rings....h calling to appologize...he's just tired and dirty and know's that sometimes when people are there it is hard to get him to go to bed..shouldn't have taken it out on me..and all that...so he made nice nice..
well h hung around this am..til about 11.... didn't really give me an itinerary of his day (not abnormal) so I just called him and got no answer...two secs later h calls back I don't answer he leaves message and calls cell phone then calls house again...so we chat a bit...he should be home by 6:30...I ask what he's been up to and he rambles on and on about the menial tasks he's been running around getting done..then suggests that we maybe play a game of darts tonight or something different to break the monotony..then tells me he'd like to start staying home a couple of days during the week as he has some stuff he'd like to do around the house and would also like to just hang around.
we are going out thurs night to do christmas shopping for the kids (haven't done that together since sons first christmas) I let him know I'd be going out fri night (dbrs) he didn't ask who what where (doesn't get that part yet) and then sat we are having a party here...his employees, some friends and what-not..
so that's good stuff right..
see instead of being accusitory (well I was right after all wasn't i, he did have ow) and saying what are you doing all day...bla bla bla....I simply say..what've you been up to....and he rambles..happily..
does it really reasure me that ow is gone?????dunno whatever...doubt h would be that dumb twice...and she would be a real looser anyway since she knows he's come home.
