ok so here's an example of h doing right.... after a rather nasty phone conversation earlier when I learned that h would be watching football with his buddie...I was angry ...see previous posts...orderd myself flowers that well didn't come (tommorow am now they say)
so h calls again later to check in...asks about the snow up here...I say enough so that they couldn't deliver my flowers..."who sent you flowers" I did...oh ll, you didn't have to send yourself flowers...well I wanted them and if I want something there's no reason I can get it for myself right...h says well what's done is done...you just have to have some patience (so these things will come with time I guess) so h tells me what time he may be home...I say it is ok as I checked the theaters and there are 9:00 shows so theres no rush...ok if that's what you want to do...I let him know that I am not going to be stubborn, I know that he wants to watch the game with buddie and that is ok...I would like to see a movie and should take advantage of the fact that h will be with buddie and go see a movie..is ok really.
so point of this post...h just called...he may be later than expected so he has called his dad to come over so that I do not miss the show...
aaaahhhhh!!! now how easy was that...think of me and I am happy...
