well this is a man who seems to do all the right things....took my car yesterday to clean it..and clean it he did...could not have paid someone to do a better job...took son with him to pick up a check from a customer and to the hardware store to get replacement bulbs for the microwave (the lights that shine down onto the stove) and to get a tree...he also got a wreath for the door and two arraingments for whereever...

today he is going to watch football with his buddie...he seems to be attached at the hip with his buddie...yes i am a bit jealous of their friendship...but better to have him have a male friend to talk to all day and meet for lunch than no-one or ow...

so h is not being a total romantic...so he hasn't asked me about my ring...but then again he never asked me to take it off...I did that myself...so there is a possibility he's letting me decide when i want to put it back on..

h is helping out more with the kids...(sometimes I get an extra 20min of sleep while he gets up with dd and that never happend before all this mess)

is he 100% here with me...well he does seem to be making his way home..i just have to wait a bit.

here is where h wants to be...things have happend and h wants to make up for it...i just have to be open to letting him do so.

LL