How goes it? Sorry I haven't posted on your thread for a while. Did you guys get snow at all today?
Sounds like you have had lots of frustrations. I thought it is just natural given your H has not committed 100%. But it is really a process, and it takes time.
Rember mem are from Mars? Your H is a Martan who sometimes needs to retreat to his cave to reflect and think about problems. I bet that is the indifference you are feeling. Please don't push him or wait for him by the cave at this point. You can earn lots of points now and show your changes by being understanding and supportive to his long road home. Your actions will speak louder than your words in showing that you are the right woman for him.
As for the phone bills, I guess I was always advised not to snoop. You will drive yourself crazy by keep snooping and thinking of his being with OW, while your H is trying to come home. Snooping will just induce the actions of yours that would drive him away. You said you have made so much changes for the better; this is the opportunity to demonstrate it. Don't lose them at those last moments, since it is one of the hardest.
You are doing well and you have come a long way, LL. I know it is hard and this is a great place to share your frustration. We hear you, but your patience and understanding will prevail and bring your loved one home.
Hope you enjoy the rest of your weekend. Look forward to seeing you guys next week.
