LL, I think he has to find his own way. Give him space, and keep being patient. You've come so far already. You can do this! Hang in there, and don't try to change him. You know you can't do that. He just needs time to come around. You're doing fine.
Me 47 Ex H 46 Bomb 9/02 D final 3/04 Ex H now married to OW
------------ This is surviving. There is no such thing as a normal life, there's just life. So get on with it and enjoy it!
