Hello LL,
I see you are venting again. I can see your frustration. Look - I understand completely. But, sit back and take a look at your sitch... your M didn't get into this mess overnight - and it won't be fixed overnight either.

I truly wish that my W was giving me just a fraction of the time and assurance that your H is trying to give you. I hope and pray that she will say something - anything to show that she wants to and is trying to come back home.

LL - please try to be patient. Please try to hold on for a while longer. You've come so far. Vent here all you want... but try not to lose it with your H. A lot of what he has said and done has been so positive. I really think this could work... you've just got to find a way to sit back calmly and let him work his way back. He probably just has to find the right way to do it. Give him time.