h is trying there are many many baby steps...he is working at his pace just that he has more patience than I do...I have to keep reminding myself to look at the possitives as I point out to so many others when they get frustrated...I just tend to get into rants and negate things not giving people the chance to point them out to me...I am the queen of the BUT (jj pointed that out to me long before h decided to try to come home)
h is not yet ready to go to counceling but does talk to me when I need it...we are learning at taking it one day at a time.
it's hard and I get into a rut sometimes especially with the snow and cold weather....the quick pick me up jonts to the store are not doable with the kiddos when it's as cold as it has been lately....
things are moving along....I just have to keep reminding myself this is reality not some romance novel...
