Quote: He does not sound like he's ready to put the ring back on. Do you wear yours?
he never wanted to take it off in the first place...I finally demanded he give it to me back in august...why wear a ring if you want a d and plan to be with someone else???
I took mine of when he told me he was moving out...put the engagement ring back on sometime in july but then took it off when he gave me his ring as he asked what about yours...
no I don't really think h is ready to put the ring back on for what it really means...but he wanted to wear it and it does make me feel a bit better knowing he once again has it on....not that he is seeing ow anymore but if he were it sure would say something to her!!
I will not put mine back on til he asks me too...
as far as the flowers go....h used to send me flowers on occasion just because..even sent them to me at work once when we had gotten back together after a break up (many moons ago) so I know he's got it in him...he's just taking his time....why??? I don't know.. h is taking things slowlee....he is making his way home...he is around more than in the past months...
he helps with the kids more...helps around the house more...is more attentive to me and he is trying...I think he's a bit scared too....he had been quoted as saying to his mother "what if she doesn't like me" (???????)
h will not sweep me off my feet...(his words) sad because it would be soooooo easy....send me some flowers...take me out to a movie or to run around the mall....call me and tell me a joke....tickle me....I mean really is that tough??? I don't think so...and h can do those things...think he's just trying to withdraw from pathetic little ow whom he wanted to do those things with.
it's never as bad as it seems when i let off a rambling vent....they are just my ramblings...but thanx.
Quote: but you have shown your strength time and time again.
you don't know how many times I've heard this...trouble is I don't believe it!! if I were half as strong as people think I am I'd be all set!
LL who is going to go sit in front of the fire with her h who is trying.
