Quote: And - oh, this wont help I know - but speaking as a 51 year old whose 'babies' are now 23, 21 & 19 - believe me, those years at home with them are SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO precious - and SO short! I cant wait for my beloved babies to start having babies of their own, so I can play with them!!
I know how very lucky I am to be able to enjoy this time that I have with my children, I am fortunate enough to be able to not have to work so that I can be the one to enjoy all the presious moments with them.
I am trying to deal with h's work and it being a bizare sched makes it difficult at times.
h is still trying, but at times his work does get in the way and that he can't always help. h is busy and in being busy has alot of interation with other adults..his cell phone is full of calls incomming and outgoing...h has a family and a life... my phone barely rings...it is my mom or him..and on occasion one of my friends..I am lonely at home and I suppose I take that out on h (in my mind as I know it is not his fault)
there are simply little things that get to me....1. his lack of a deal over his ring being returned to him. 2. his lack of romancing me (hey were's the flowers and cards) 3. his freedom to come and go. 4. his lack of creativity in getting me out of the house (get a sitter and take me to the movies or something)
things are not as bad as I let them get, h is not perfect but neither am I.
