LL, I am sooo happy for you...there are bound to be ups and downs, you have done a great job of getting through the downs. Grasp what is coming your way..You know what works and what does not.Keep the positive communication open. I ws reading that one book by John Gottman about marriage and he states that you have to respect each other and be able to handle the conflicts that come along in a non accusing manner.You and your h seem to be on that path.. Have a great night Sue
