Well of course, but do you really think that it matters what you tell her. You will talk to her with your own ideas in mind. You don't even know what he is thinking. If you keep trying to find conflict it will make you look bad. Don't go over there, and don't take his phone calls. He is baiting you, so he can look better when something does arise. How is this making you more attractive, and why would she chose to be with you.
M-31 W-25 S-1 1/2 bomb dropped 9-01-06,and repeating over and over "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be." Groucho Marx.