Hi UA, I'm doing OK. I'm kind of surprised by that, but not complaining, too much. How are you doing?
Sounds like you've been doing well to me. You post enough, and others post so much on your thread, that it can be hard for me to catch up. I hope my impression is accurate. If it is, I'm very happy for you and I think you are well on your way (which of course means you'll need even more patience than you had before ;-)
M45, W45,S15, D10, Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07 last thread
good and bad I guess. She hasn't decided to divorce me yet, but she hasn't decided if she wants to be with me either. She is interveiwing for a job out of state. If she gets it, and accepts it, that will lead to some interesting conversations.
I'm feeling envious of you these days. Things still going well? Slow, but steady progress? You keeping those other boys, like JazzGrt, in check?
OK, UA, I'm feeling really lonely. I want someone to hold, and love, and touch. I want it to be my W. I wonder if it ever will be again. I wonder how long I can wait to find out.
whew, thanks. That feels good to get off my chest. Well, doesn't feel good, but a little release. thanks
M45, W45,S15, D10, Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07 last thread
Is she still at home? Have you seen any positives? One definite positive is that she hasn't moved forward. Stop festering on what if's - they will kill you. (meaning the job)
not sure if I'm keeping the guys in line over there ....LOL
Understandable that you want your W. Are you sharing a bed? Have you talked about counseling?
For me, when our bomb droppped, H moved across the hall for 7 weeks. He moved back to our bed for a time and then moved out on 1 Jan. He has since been back in our bed but has not moved back home. That is all I really want - him back in our bed permanently.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
Although I do envy you, UA, and I think you and your H have a very good chance of all working out, I feel bad for you too. I'm sorry he hasn't moved back yet. I'd move back quickly if I were him.
She is still at home, pleasant to me, will go out with me, we've been to MC and she has agreed to more (although I don't think she is happy with it, but I could be wrong). There are some positives. We've been talking a lot more, and some interesting topics and issues have come up. She is trying to open up. I think we are growing closer, even if she hasn't decided that is what she wants. We are not sharing a bed. :-( ML is a loaded topic for us. She felt she could never please me or live up to my expectations. She was partly right. My expectations were way whacked. I've learned. She is pretty good at ML, not that I have much experience, but I was happy. My expectations had to do with feeling loved and the frequency of ML. I blew a good thing in many ways.
I made some time and checked out your topic. Looks like it got highjacked a little bit. I guess I'm not the only flirt on the boards.
I really hope your H does come back to you and your bed for good. I think the odds are way in your favor.
M45, W45,S15, D10, Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07 last thread
