i know full well it is not his job to read my mind and he has never had to....I always let him know what I need and want...am only now having to learn to pick and choose...but on the issue of my going out...I have let h know that if he would prefer that i spend time at home with him he need only speak up..does not mean that I wont still go out but I would like for him to let me know. h is still trying to give me space and doesn't realize that unlike him...i like to be called and I'd like to be reminded that I'm wanted.
so when h did get home he hugged me and asked what was wrong...I said I felt like he was drifting..we discussed this week a bit (has been crazy because of the snow) h assured me that he is not drifting anywhere and has just been off due to the screwey schedule of snow plowing!! LL
