I agree with the others....while any "rational" person would want to know the truth about the one they are with...MLC'er don't want the truth...they LOVE their FANTASY...
If you or Mrs. S were to say anything it would only put H on the defensive....unless you have the pictures to prove it, as a friend of mine always says to me, don't believe it....
Keep the drama out...don't discuss this again with Mr. or Mrs. S....or anyone....just keep going on about your life, business and children...it sounds like H is teetering....if you "threaten" OW....that is like telling him he is an idiot for being with her....it will only want to make H prove to the world how wonderful OW is....if EVERYONE backs off of OW...then H will have time to "clearly focus" his attention on her and eventually see OW for who she "really" is...
