LL you have done a great job so far with paitence, I too am not real good at that, but sure have learned alot about change. So I know that this is a crazy question(I kinda figured it out!!!)But LL and Steph, both you and spouses took off rings when you seperated? I never even gave that a thought and h still has his on.Interesting if everyone does or not..PLEASE don't think I am criticizing I was just curious if most take them off. Sue
