Just don't even bring him up. You are the bigger man and she knows that by the way you want to change. That's part of my problem is bringing up the OM, and I need to stop it. I feel like it's helping but it really isn't making it better. She needs some time and you need patience. so give those two things a try and see what kind of place your in then.
M-31 W-25 S-1 1/2 bomb dropped 9-01-06,and repeating over and over "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be." Groucho Marx.
