I know you guys think it's a bad idea to talk to him, but I want to ask him if he realizes the scope of the damage that he participated in creating. I don't want to threaten him, I already did that the night I caught them, he's such a man that he ran when I tried to get ahold of him. I want to talk to him in a gentlemanly fashion, and basically tell him that he better respect what my GF asked of him, that they not talk or be friends or anything other than co-workers. I was no stranger to brawling when I was a punk-teenager, but I'm proud to say I don't have that same attitude anymore. This whole experience is pushing me back to my default protection modes that I used as a kid. I let go of hatred when I met her, and the pressure of this is pushing those buttons that made me do stupid stuff when I was younger. Should I tell her tomorrow in MC about he and I talking?
