So what about the sex? This is where some of you might see my success story as being not-so-successful. All of us would love to have our spouse take more initiative. I think I'm still a bit sour-grapes that she's wired this way.
Hey, Dave! I've got questions!
I assume you're talking about more initiative sexually? What would that look like to you?
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She's a classic "not want to want" type. This makes her peaceful about giving me space to do things with friends but makes her a better roommate than a spouse. I'd love to give her something but she doesn't want anything. BUt again, through the SSM issue we worked through a bunch of other issues and I'm in a much better place because of it.
Are you still dealing with sexual starvation? When you're talking about "give(ing) her something, but she doesn't want anything" - are you talking sexually or ?
