I think I knew the answer b4 posting! Losing sleep over something can show you the way sometimes. I will keep the Mrs. S info to myself for now.
I just need to remember the phrase I read somewhere out here to the effect: If what I am going to say to H is going to push us apart - don't say it! This is hard for me to remember!
Thanks for the input. We have family dinner tonight and he has the kids Friday eve and SaturDAY - I suggested maybe a family movie on Sunday and H seemed VERY up for it!
I figure if he is with us so much he makes Ow mad or lies to her about all the time he is with us. Which ulitmately helps bring down their house of cards R!!!!
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing