Originally Posted By: LoginName
Cheers (do y'all use that as a greeting as well as a good bye?)


Tends to be a goodbye but can mean thanks and of course said with a glass in hand, too.

Originally Posted By: LoginName

JBF, what if seeing your W was the best thing for your D, even it it caused some nightmares? It's hard to know.


It is hard to know and unfortunately my W did push a few buttons with her text yesterday on this one and she did get me questioning. I have discussed it at length with my mum who sees D every day and who also feels it's too unsettling for D this week. I'm thinking that if D continues to settle over the next couple of nights, I might suggest that she sees her on Sunday.

Tomorrow may be a tough day for me as the house goes on the market. I'm obviously going to try not to let it, but seeing the board up outside will hurt, I think.

Re:custody. I do think we could come to some agreement on this if the need arises. W won't want custody, I don't think, as it would interfere with her new social life too much. I guess that could change over time, however.

LiN, The Salvation Army grew out of the Methodists I believe. I mothballed my uniform 27 years ago but I guess the fundamental values have stuck. Your musical tastes sound as eclectic as mine.

Just as it's not worth trying to fathom out what our spouses are thinking it's really not worth trying to make sense of the British weather.